There's a first time for everything: June 2009

Her original post.

Just got home from a wedding... Had two weddings this weekend and both are so worlds apart...

Yesterday was at Sentosa and the wedding was a total boo boo. The venue was totally difficult to find and access. Then as it was open air... People was sweating like pigs cos they had switched off two fans since one was blowing at the lighting and the other was blowing at the projector.

Initially at first look, it looks nice... But once you sit in there, its like a sauna. Worst was the food was buffet and there wasnt much for people. It was the worst i have ever been to. Unfortunately, it was a relative of mine and she paid alot for it. Guess trying too hard just spoils it. But i am sure that i will never go to a wedding held there ever even if it was my brothers wedding cos i'd slap him if he ever wants to hold it there.

On the other hand, my colleague held hers at the Mandarin Hotel. It was definately so so so so way much better cept that entertainment wasnt much which left the ballroom rather quiet. Nevertheless, it was classy and nice.

I'm happy for these couple though... I love weddings cos it reminds me of mine!!!

Anyways time to snooze.

I had to say something.. She was mean.

Callista said...

You look familiar! You're the girl at the reception that took the cab and said you drove instead weren't you?? OMG! We couldn't stop laughing at ur stupidity,haha.

I was the bridesmaid at the wedding and I think everyone except you thought it was a total 'boo-boo'? Wonder what that even means. Anyways, are you married? Cz if you are then your wedding must have been really shitty to be sitting down and being envious of other people's one.

7:25 PM

Melissa said...

Hi there, i apologise if i sounded very rude.

The bride is my cousin and there were no ill intentions on the post cept that the venue was very bad as it was not easily accessible for the grandmother and aunts and it was really very very hot.

"Initially at first look, it looks nice... But once you sit in there, its like a sauna"

My conscience is clear because i was sitting with my aunts and uncle and i am very sure that we all agree that it was really hot and uncomfortable.

If you hadn't noticed, at the end of the post, i had stated "I'm happy for these couple though... I love weddings cos it reminds me of mine!!!"

So yeah... Hope that is clear cos the bride is my cousin and it doesn't benefit me whatsoever by putting up a post on it.

It is about the VENUE.

Its just funny how you are able to co-incidentally bump into this post. I'm just crossing my fingers that you are not the person i think you are. Because if you are, then its pretty sad that A has such "friends" or should i say "family" around her.

9:26 PM

.: Cal :. said...

Number 1, please don't try to justify ur obvious jealousy by making ur post seem less pathetic than it actually sounds cz seriously, it's not working.

And for the part you said 'i'm happy for these couples though.." wow, I'm sure you sounded VERY sincere. After all the banging you were giving left,right and center, of course.. suddenly she's 'family' and you're so-called 'happy' for them. Please, take ur sarcasm somewhere else.

Yes, it was hot, but so what?? Just because of that you're trying to say you had every right to speak the way you did about your so called 'family' member?

By the way, don;t feel sad for me.. cz its way better for A to have family like me who stick up for her than to have """family""" like you who just try to put other people down to just make herself feel less pathetic.

Don;t bother starting a war with me, really. Cz trust me, you're at the losing end already.

11:49 AM

.: Cal :. said...

Oh, now suddenly you need approval to publish comments is it?

Honestly, you are one sad ass case la seriously.. haha.

Sorry but I really have low tolerance for bullshit.

Peace. :)

11:49 AM

Melissa said...

For the record... I can write whatever i wanna write in my blog. And even if the bride was in front of me right now, i'd tell her straight in the face that the venue sucked.

And if you can't read between the lines then i guess your just damn immature.

The post was dated 1 June which whatever i posted there was the truth. In that post, i talked about the VENUE as well as how happy i was for the couple. Isn't it dumb to publish something when you don't mean it?

And its funny that you can agree that it was HOT. Thats what the whole topic was about!!! My gosh... I don't understand why you are bitching so much when you actually agree to what i had intended the post to be about!

And if you don't realise... I never mentioned the exact location cept that it was Sentosa as well as the name of A and not a single photo was posted. Its hilarious how vast your imagination can take you. So unless you had ill intentions... I have no comments.

Its weird that you can come out with such weird analogy.

Thanks for the hype though... makes things so interesting.

Well, if you have nothing interesting to do... Go read a book or something. Maybe it'll make you more intelligent and less immature.

I haven't the time to entertain your silliness. If A has a problem, i'd gladly rectify it with her. I have no qualms about it. What i had stated was the fact. And you of all person had agreed on it too.

3:48 PM

Melissa said...

Yes, i have to moderate the posts cos some people love using Annonymous status to come liven up my blog.

So i have actually started to moderate posts so i know who you are.

Trust the above clarifies

3:56 PM

.: Cal :. said...

Oh pls. I don't even see any of ur so-called "anonymous" comments in any of ur blog posts.

You really think I'm interested in reading ur damn posts? Sorry to burst your dream-bubble but the only reason I came across this was because someone told me to read it.

And you say you were only commenting on the hot environment? I read the post again and you also complained about the food, and the how hard it was to get there and the fact that you said, I quote "the worse I've been to".. yea, I'm pretty sure you meant it so so much right?

Honestly, don't bother fighting with me about this seriously.
I'm her cousin and so are you, so if you can come and bitch about someone's wedding the way you did, don't give me the bull crap about family.. cz the last time I checked, 'family' don't publicly humiliate their other family members.

My fight is not about what you said, but the way you said it. So don't write bullshit like that about someone and say that you meant it in a good way. "i'm happy for these couple though.." pfft.

You know what, I;m done arguing with you about this. You're right it's ur blog so if you wanna be a bitch it's ur thing. It's just not mine.

I did this only cz I have this compulsive tendency of sticking up for people I care for. Sorry I can't say the same for you. But maybe all you care about is urself? But maybe I'm wrong? I don't know and frankly I don't care.

A reply will be unnecessary. It was nice taking to you though.

P/S : Don't call me immature only because I make more sense than you.

7:07 PM